Sep 15, 2011

Why does children have rebellious mentality

In the children's psychological development, there will be some time suddenly appear brash, disobedient situation, unwilling to let others interfere in their business. This phenomenon often occurs in pre-school children, mostly normal. But there are some children there is the more obvious rebellious, affecting the physical and mental health and relationship with those around them.
Form of reverse psychology is not new, the reasons for its formation include:
1, the parents and children often lack the feelings of communication, lack of respect for the child, the child will be treated with no respect for parents. Its manifestations are rude and silent two.
  
2, adults over children to accommodate. Children that mistakes will not be criticized, this error message so that the child is unknown right and wrong, if parents want to discipline, the child is very meet, there will be rebellious.
3, paternalistic. Arbitrary type of education makes children feel comfortable, depression, and thus the resistance to answer to parents.
4, the children of the family and parents are not satisfied that the family lacks equality, democracy and respect. In particular, the feelings of parents and makes no psychological disorder in children often have to rebellious behavior to express their dissatisfaction. There are no role models because their parents often feel no spiritual support and distress, will take a rebellious mood as the vent.
5, the lack of satisfaction. For various reasons parents and children can not always together, even though the material very rich, but children are very hungry, but emotionally a long time, in the absence of double-dear to the case will be rebellious and silence to express their dissatisfaction .

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